Bella’s Surgery

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We’ve known Bella needed to have her tonsils and adenoids removed since February. After a long wait to meet with the ENT (May), the surgery was scheduled for yesterday. That means my poor kid has known about a pending surgery for five months. She’s had five months to dread it, five months to chew her nails to bits.

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Some things that helped prep her for the surgery were these two books and talking to other kids who’d had their tonsils removed. Also, the promise of ice cream and unlimited screen time.

What didn’t help was the fact that she was around when my tonsils were removed two years ago. Everyone kept telling us adult tonsillectomies were worse, but I kind of wonder if that whole “worse” thing has to do with kids limited abilities to express pain.

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But, she had to have her tonsils removed. She caught every bug under the sun last year, and her tonsils were obstructing her airway and causing some major sleep apnea. So two days ago, we had a Bella day, where she was allowed to choose whatever she wanted to eat all day (and she did good. I was half expecting candy and junk food, but she wanted waffles and bananas for breakfast, McDonald’s for lunch, and pizza for dinner. Not super healthy, but not cookies all day either). And had a goodbye tonsil party that night where we watched a Bella movie and had cake to say goodbye. Then yesterday, at 6:30 AM, we arrived at an outpatient facility to have the tonsils removed.

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She was pretty upset about not being allowed to have breakfast or water, but the promise of a popsicle after surgery kept her going. I’m glad I brought her leap pad with us, because we were in the waiting room for a good hour filling out paper work and (this was a surprise) paying for the surgery up front. Then they called us back and we spent about another hour meeting with the anesthesiologist, the surgeon, and the nurses. They all asked the exact same questions to make sure we were all on the same page. It was a really subtle safety precaution. We filled out more paperwork, and then Bella got changed into a really cute hospital gown with tigers on it.

They gave her medicine to stop her from salivating and we had the option to give her something to reduce her anxiety before they took her away from us and put her under, but we were warned this would impact her ability to come out from under the anesthesia. She’d be way more out of it and it would be a much bigger deal. Fortunately, this is where the books came in handy. Each kid in the books was given a medicine that made them sleepy and relaxed before they left their parents. Bella assumed the medicine she drank did just that and since it was early in the morning and she was sleepy and no one slept well the night before, she legitimately felt sleepy. So we opted not to go with the other medicine.

It was really hard letting them wheel her bed away. When I got my tonsils out, there was this little kid the next room over screaming for his mommy and daddy. The poor thing was so terrified that I was crying on his behalf. There’s really no worse sound than a terrified child. I kept picturing Bella getting back there without us and flipping out and us just sitting out in the waiting room not knowing. But when I talked to her about it later, she said that everyone was so nice that she never felt scared.

She woke up asking for chocolate and assuring us it didn’t hurt as bad as her throat normally did. Her doctor said her tonsils were pretty inflamed and riddled with tonsil stones, which he was expecting, but he was surprised by the size of her adenoids. Apparently they were much larger than he anticipated.

Bella gave the doctors evil glares when they checked on her, which was surprising since she’d just said they were so nice. Further investigation revealed she’d been promised a popsicle, which had not yet been delivered, and that she’d get to blow up a balloon. But the balloon was’t a real balloon (the thing they breathe into for anesthesia).

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We got her a real balloon and a popsicle and all was well.

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Then the kid in the next curtain partition over woke up and started screaming. Which had to hurt. So he screamed more. Poor kid was just too little to understand what was happening. His mom was frantically trying to calm him down and the doctors gave him something, but it was really awful to hear, and it stressed Bella out because she’d been fine pain wise but now she was thinking, maybe she should be in pain.

The rest of the day went much better. Bella took her pain medicine and napped until the next dose was due (four hour gaps), at which point we switched to Ibuprofen because her doctor insists it works just as well for managing pain.

We’ll see.

 

By the end of the day, Bella was bored with unlimited screen time, tired of ice cream, and unwilling to try soup or mashed potatoes. She was hungry for real food and very upset she couldn’t get any. I wasn’t too worried because I wasn’t allowed to eat anything on my first day, so she was better off. And since I’d done this before, I knew all the tricks. I had the humidifier ready, the ice collars frozen, the meds spaced out perfectly. Movies and shows and games all picked out. Gatorade with crushed ice and an intimate knowledge of just how much the pain killers sting going down, so she had lots of warning.

It got worse at night, which I was expecting. That’s when all the talking kind of crashed down on her. She didn’t want to take the stinging medicine, but we had ice Gatorade ready to chase it down. Once the medicine kicked in, she went to sleep. We set the alarm for more doses (switching to ibuprofen for the rest of the night), and she slept really well throughout the night.

This morning, she was happy to eat her breakfast. Eggs, banana, and greek yogurt. Chewing doesn’t seem to bug her as much as it did me, so that’s good, but we did wait until her ibuprofen kicked in before feeding her. She’s excited to be able to brush her teeth and enjoy a full day of screen. I’ll let you know how it goes tomorrow.

For comparison, this is what day one of an adult tonsillectomy looks like.

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Fave Friday: Zombies Run Radio Mode

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I love Zombies Run. It’s by far the best running app out there. I’ve been a fan since they launched the premise on kickstarter (my name is in the survivor’s log, you know.)The story is great, the premise is entertaining, and I mean, come on. Zombies! You can read my review on the app and the 5k training app here.

Weirdly, Zombies Run is one of the top search terms leading people to my site, so in an effort to help out my fellow runners, I’m going to answer a question that’s gone unanswered on their facebook page and yahoo ask, and the zombies run wiki.

How long is radio mode?

First, I emailed the question to the support staff. Here was their answer.

Hi Kaitlin,

Thanks for getting back in touch.

I’m afraid we don’t have any hard and fast data on how long each Season of Radio Mode is, so I can only give you estimates. Seasons 2 and 3 are the longest, whereas Season 1 and 4 are of about equal length and shorter than Seasons 2 and 3. Currently Season 5 can be completed in between 1-2 hours, but this will increase once we add more clips.

There are approximately 8 hours total of Radio Mode content for Seasons 2 and 3, but that is an estimate on the low side, and also doesn’t account for the 2 minute gaps in between each clip. You would need to at least double this, probably treble it, to get the true length of Radio Mode when played through the app. Seasons 1 and 4 are about half that length, so roughly 4 hours uninterrupted, as a conservative estimate.

I hope that answers your question. If there’s anything else I can help with then please let me know.

All the best,

Lou

I’m really grateful to Lou for getting back to me, and that information was more than I had before, but if you’re like me, that’s not enough. I finished a season a few weeks ago and in the gap, I started listening to radio mode during my runs. But, I didn’t want it to end in the middle of my run. But with this answer, I was confident enough to get started knowing there would be many missions worth of content. Because of that, I can provide a more detailed answer. At least for season 1.

Quick review of season 1 Radio Mode. It’s not as motivating as the actual missions. No one is telling me to run faster or harder and no one’s dying. Earlier in the season, there were a lot of clips that were basically “That was a great song. Here’s the next one.” But  as the season found its stride,  I laughed out loud listening more than once (the sports bra quip was the best). Laughing is super awkward when you’re running, by the way. I enjoyed the stories toward the end and getting to know Jack and Eugine even better. Definitely listen if you’re a fan. No materials, but still worth the listen.

Stats:

Season 1 radio mode lasted for 10 thirty-minute (estimated time, sometimes I went longer if a clip was still going, and today the actual radio mode ended at 29 minutes.) runs if you set it to 2 minutes between clips. I used an external music player, so my songs didn’t factor into that. Each run started and ended with a clip. I’ll break it down into more detail below. Hope this helps!

Run 1: 30:03 Minutes. 11 Clips Included: Testing; The Major Won’t Be Happy; Stay Away; Update Your Maps; More Music, More Chat; Pretentious; Technical Difficulties; Radio Abel Is Off Air; Getting Some Air; Public Service Content;

Run 2: 32:25 Minutes. 11 Clips Included: Misting Up; Happening Tune; Stay Safe; Reminders of Home; Small Caliber; Flashing the Quad; Tips from the Road; Quiet Is Key;  In a Post-Civilization World; Terrible B.O; Not Anymore.

Run 3: 30:29 Minutes. 10 Clips Included: Balanced Diet; Touch it And See; Zee-Bay; Clean, Dry Feet; Pretty Addictive; Drop Us a Line; Network Recovery Effort; ROFFLENET; Totally Moronic; Cool Story.

Run 4: 30:04 Minutes. 9 Clips Included: The Well Has Run Dry; Call For Equipment; Eugene’s Choice; Sing Along, Fever Dreams; Paging Dr. Freud; Full Upgrade; Robot Radio Abel; Priorities; Useful Starting Location.

Run 5: 35:29 Minutes. 11 Clips Included: Think Big; Thursday!; Indulgences; Money Where Your Mouth Is; Abel Minds; What are You Thankful For; What’s Your Weapon; Hopes for the Future; To the Doctor!; Water, Food, Fuel; Find It, Filter It, Boil It.

Run 6: 30:07 Minutes (The saddest/sweetest radio mode mission). 9 Clips Included:Committed to Your Entertainment; Brain Freeze; Tim Vine Jokes; A Mess Without You; Phreatic Aquifer; Thrunners; Emotionally Open Individual; No More Spam; Martyr

Run 7: 30:17 Minutes (The funniest radio mode mission). 9 Clips Included: Like You’ll Ever Forget; Alright; If You Want to Live; Martin!; Tyresias; Ben? Ben!; Father Michael; I Will Share My Evidence; Be Wary;

Run 8: 30:03 Minutes. 8 Clips Included: Erase You From My Mind;  Very Exciting; CookBook; Apology Song; Be Careful!; Survival Tips; Spatter; Standards; Mud.

Run 9: 30:36 Minutes. 11 Clips Included: Ear Present; A Mixed Bag; Twice a Day!; Eye Candy; Squidlet; No More Sports Bras; Ring; Resurrection; Brock Samson; Stay Strong; Lady Cluck.

Run 10: 29:00 Minutes of Radio Mode, 1 minute of music at the end. 6 Clips Included: Dark; This Zombie Life; This Zombie Life; This Zombie Life; This Zombie Life; This Zombie Life. ^ Not a typo, that’ what they were all called because it was the continuation of a story. Made for a great run.

So there you have it.95 Clips coming in at 300 minutes in total (though that will vary because a new clip starts every time you start and the spacing isn’t consistent). I hope this helps anyone with the same questions I had.

 

Happy Summer Solstice!

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Today is the longest day of the year. The sun is the highest it will be in the sky, and as of today it’s officially summer. Now, I don’t know about where you guys are, but here, it’s hot! And it’s been hot for a while, so this isn’t so much the start of summer for me. It’s just another summer day. An extra long, extra hot summer day. So I’m taking my little one and heading to the splash pad. And I suggest you do the same.

Enjoy the summer!

Aphrodite is LIVE!

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Writing on Wednesday: First Look

Every Wednesday from now until release date, I’ll be posting an exclusive scene from Aphrodite! Like what you read? Preorder today!

Aphrodite

“YOUR KIND ISN’T welcome here,” the dark-haired man growled, pushing his thick glasses up his nose with his index finger. The kid with shaggy hair and the balding man stepped around him, Olympian Steele gripped tight in their hands. I couldn’t take my eyes off the glittering stakes.

Poseidon let out a string of curses that would shock any sailor. “Get behind me.” He held out a hand, ready to push me back if I didn’t comply. His trident appeared in his other hand with a flash of gold so bright in the darkness, I found myself blinking away sparkling dots. “And get ready to run.”

“Run?” I demanded. “Why can’t we teleport?” Poseidon could grant me authorization in a second.

“And leave your demigod as collateral? My vows prohibit that, thanks to you.”

I laced my voice with as much sarcasm as I could. “We could always go get him.”

Pink Dress attacked first, with all the grace of a zombie. She leapt forward, hacking and slashing at the air with the Olympian Steele before she even got within a foot of Poseidon. She was trying to miss. The flashing lights illuminated a wild struggle in her dark eyes. She was resisting the charm the best she could, but what hope could a mere mortal have over a divine force of will?

“And risk ’porting straight into a trap?”

Poseidon had a point. You couldn’t shield yourself while teleporting. We might be able to throw up a shield the second we arrived, but we’d be vulnerable for that second.

“We’re dealing with this now,” Poseidon declared.

I summoned my charm, gritting my teeth against the pain ripping through my stomach. Gah! What was this? The charm slid off the passengers like water. Swallowing hard, I stepped back, bumping into a barstool. Run? From humans?

Poseidon dodged an attack from Baldy, then seemed to remember me and threw himself between the two of us, trident whirling to block his Steele. “We’re going to talk about the bargain we just made later.”

“Talk all you want. Your promises are still binding.” I threw up a shield, power flaring to life within me. Gods, that hurt. Gritting my teeth, I ignored the gut-wrenching pain and pushed the shield at the charmed passengers just as Shaggy joined the fray, Steele shattering my shield in a second.

I froze. Fighting wasn’t in my skill set. Unlike Persephone, I’d never seen the point in spending my spare time learning self-defense or honing my powers so I’d be ready for a combat situation. My charm could quell gods. Why would I ever need anything more than that?

Poseidon shoved me to the side, intercepting the Steele with his trident. Baldy leapt to Shaggy’s aid, slashing at Poseidon, but Poseidon sent him flying into the bar, crashing into a wall of bottles with enough force to shatter them. Baldy hit the ground with a thud, alcohol and glass raining around him. The bartender, unperturbed, kept pouring drinks. What the hell? Everyone else danced or stood around in unconcerned clusters. Was the whole club charmed? Holy Hades, what kind of power were we dealing with?

Don’t just stand there. Do something. Taking a deep breath, I tuned out the pulsing music and concentrated. With effort, I picked out several more charmed passengers as well as a shield enveloping the entire bar. “Poseidon, break the shield!”

A wave of power swelled from Poseidon. The shield shattered. My stomach wrenched as I blanketed the room with charm in a desperate bid to gain control of the passengers before they panicked and fled. They could come in handy.

Gods! The effort of channeling my powers sent me doubling over in agony.

Gritting my teeth, I pushed past the pain, concentration breaking when another passenger lunged at me, knocking me to the floor. Rolling out of the way, I slid across shattered glass. The broken bottles sliced my skin. I leapt to my feet. The uncharmed passengers became aware of the fight in their midst, and rushed toward the door screaming. “Crap!” Pushing past the pain, I refocused my power on the crowd as the music shut off and fluorescent lights flickered on.

“Are you cut?” Poseidon spared me a glance, throwing up a shield to gain the half-second to determine whether or not I was all right.

“Not by Steele.” Taking a deep breath, I forced my charm to take hold of the other passengers. “Help me!”

The bar came to life as passengers threw themselves in between me and the Steele-wielding zombies.

“Go,” Poseidon shouted, trident swinging in a wild arc. Pink Dress ducked around the blow, slashing at Poseidon, but got intercepted by a crew member acting under the influence of my charm. I ran, Poseidon on my heels. The crowd split in front of me, forming a narrow hallway that closed in behind us. A living shield.

Scattered within the crowd, I could pick out the passengers who weren’t under my control waiting for us to get close enough to strike. “Red dress! Glasses! Waitress behind the table!” I shouted warnings to Poseidon as soon as I picked out the passengers who would attack, glancing back to gauge his success.

Poseidon’s trident flashed. Now I understood why Demeter and Hades had been so determined to get him on their side against Zeus. Poseidon wasn’t just powerful. He fought in a way most gods were too complacent to even consider. I couldn’t tell where his powers stopped and his physical prowess began. Green lightning erupted from the trident, followed by a punch, a kick, a shield inverted around a passenger to restrain them. He seemed to be everywhere at once until they tried to strike back, and then he was nowhere.

“You’re incredible!” I hadn’t meant to speak out loud, and, by rights, I shouldn’t be audible over the fight, but somehow, Poseidon still heard and shot me a grin.

“You sound surprised. I thought that was common knowledge.” His grin faded. “Watch out!”

I ducked as another charmed passenger broke through the crowd, slashing at the place where I’d been with the shimmering stake. Poseidon was there in a flash. The passenger went flying into the wall as limp as a rag doll.

We broke free of the bar and dashed through a hallway decorated to resemble the night sky. If anyone thought it odd we ran like our lives depended on it, I didn’t notice. “Where are we going?” I cried.

“Water.”

Right. I veered toward the atrium as the hall opened up into a lobby full of gift shops, tables, and photographers posing random passengers in front of pretty backdrops. The charmed passengers followed right on our heels. “This way!” I rushed across the atrium and up the curved, golden staircase.

I screamed as a hand closed around my ankle and yanked me down the steps. For a second, all I could focus on was the stake centimeters from my face. The weapon didn’t move. My gaze shifted up the arm of the passenger carrying the Steele. His face contorted in a grimace of agony. With a violent jerk, he was flung off of me, and slammed into the wall propelled by an invisible force.

“What?” Leaping to my feet, I found Poseidon. He had one arm up as he cast and recast a shield to keep the passengers at bay almost as fast as they slashed through it, and the other, stretched toward the man, trident extended. “How did you do that?” Telekinesis was not in our skill set.

“Salt water.” Poseidon panted, the strain from casting a new shield every time Steele broke through evident on his face. “Run!”

I scrambled up the steps, my mind reeling. There were whispers, rumors, that the original six were capable of manipulating the human body via built-in fail-safes. A control for each god. Water for Poseidon, trace minerals from the earth for Demeter, and the four aspects of the soul for the rest. But I’d only heard rumors. Precious little information about human creation passed down the bloodlines.

And no one could say for certain whether those same controls were built into us. Forget that for now. How have you not been cut? I’d been knocked over, pushed, and outright missed a statistically improbable number of times not to have sustained a single injury from the Olympian Daggers.

This fight didn’t make sense. I’d been on this ship surrounded by these people for the last day and a half. Why hadn’t someone taken me out then?

Maybe I’m not the target.

What if I was just in the way? Had they addressed both of us, or just Poseidon at the beginning of the fight? He’d stayed behind a shield almost the entire time he’d been on board. Maybe they’d attacked like this because taking down his shield would be noticeable no matter what they did. If you can’t go for surprise, go for strength?

I burst through the exterior door and slammed into the railing, gasping for breath.

“Stay against the rail.” Poseidon slid to halt in front of me.

“Here?” I took a nervous look around. The bit of deck we occupied reminded me of a sidewalk. The narrow strip of white wooden planks and painted metal rails ran parallel to the main lobby, separated by windows and glass doors. The charmed passengers stood in the open doorway, hacking at Poseidon’s shield. Soft Caribbean music and laughter came from the pool farther down the deck. I glanced at the exterior steps, wondering if we should run up one more deck.

“Here.” Poseidon’s shield broke and I felt the power ricochet back to him. “Can you break the charm?”

I hesitated. I’d never succeeded in freeing Persephone from Zeus’s charm, no matter how hard I’d tried. And I’d tried hard. “I have some theories.”

Poseidon nodded. “Try then. I’d rather not have to kill anyone.”

“Really?” It wasn’t as if I thought Poseidon enjoyed death and violence. Much. But I didn’t expect him to care one way or another whether the people attacking us lived or died.

Poseidon shrugged. “I don’t want to give Hades any excuse to come to my realm.”

Right. Gods had to respond to divine causes of death. It figured that’s what Poseidon would worry about right now. The sea god turned to the door. “I’ll buy you as much time as I can. You may want to duck.”

I dropped to my knees, my hands going over my head as a wall of water rushed above me, whipping around the deck as the charmed passengers poured through the doorway.

Go inside, nothing to see here. My stomach twisted as I let the command blanket the ship, fueling the order with every bit of power I could manage. Get to your room and stay there until morning.

The effort of maintaining hold of so many passengers twisted my stomach into painful knots. Oh, gods, this hurts. Water roared around me, disrupting my concentration. Squeezing my eyes shut, I waited until I sensed the passengers under my control begin to retreat across the ship. I imagined doors closing, and gave them a few seconds to get settled, making sure to imprint a strong desire in their minds to stay put until sunup before releasing them from my charm. Even out of my control, they would most likely obey the subconscious command.

I narrowed my focus to the passengers under foreign control heading toward this deck.

How many were there in total? I gave up counting at thirty and shifted my attention to the eight fighting Poseidon.

I could sense the charm holding them, but something about the power signature seemed off. Charm was like a thread of power extending from god to man. A thread. But the charm holding the humans hostage wasn’t a solitary thread but many, woven together like a rope.

“There’s more than one controller,” I blurted, realization hitting me like a tidal wave.

“What?” Poseidon shouted.

My answer got swallowed in the roar of the water. Baldy lunged at Poseidon, but got whipped away by the current. The water animated and whirled around Poseidon, suspended in the air like the arms of an octopus, lashing out every time one of the passengers got too close. But he wouldn’t be able to keep up the fight forever. I gritted my teeth and focused on gathering more power.

We weren’t dealing with another deity like me or a super-charged Titan. This was something else entirely. What did Zeus say? “You think you saved the world by killing me, but you’ve doomed it. What’s coming is worse. And Hades, they’re armed.”

They’re armed. Plural. We were dealing with a group. An army, even.

I kept my eyes closed, tuning out the screams, grunts, and occasional flashes of green lightning to separate each power signature I found connected to one of the charmed passengers. The threads of power were braided together in an intricate chain of charm.

But the woman in the pink dress did fight the foreign control. Maybe she wasn’t the only one. I opened my eyes for a second. The jerky movements of the passengers confirmed my theory. Gritting my teeth against the gut-wrenching pain that came with using my powers so close to Poseidon, I focused on a single thread of charm, ignoring the rest of the rope for now.

The individual threads were weak.

“Aphrodite,” Poseidon snapped. “Any time now!”

More passengers joined the battle. I hadn’t opened my eyes to check, but I could sense them. How many? Ten? Twelve? “I’m trying!” I focused on channeling my power through the gaps between threads of charm. Sweat bathed my face. Using my powers shouldn’t hurt this much.

Almost. I pushed at the gaps, pouring more and more power into the effort. The charm snapped and my eyes flew open. “Got it!” I called triumphantly. “I’ve—” I broke off with a gasp. The passengers hung suspended in a wall of water before Poseidon. Their mouths open, faces frozen in contorted expressions of pain as they’d desperately tried to drag air into their lungs but failed, finding only water. Their dead eyes burned with accusation.

“No.” Poseidon stepped backward and the water crashed to the deck, bringing the bodies to the ground with a sick sounding thunk, Olympian Steele still clutched tight in their dead fingers. “You didn’t.”

Happy Employee Appreciation Day!

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Happy Employee Appreciation Day everyone!

Now, I’m not an employee, nor do I have any, but I interact with employees every day, and I worked in retail long enough to know that it sucks. So if you’re working today, know you are appreciated and ignore the rest of this blog.

If you’re off or you don’t work or you don’t work for anyone but yourself, make the effort to show how much you appreciate the people who do in whatever way you can. Tip well. Find a manager and talk about how amazing the person helping you check out was. Get the name of anyone and everyone who helps you today and use them when you take the five minutes to fill out the surveys that come with the receipts. Incidentally, you get free stuff for doing that, so everyone wins.

Go out of your way to be nice today. They deserve it.

For Real Friday: Just Because You Love It…

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My husband and I sometimes argue about how inflexible I am about going to writers’ group. “Can’t you just skip this week?” he’ll ask before bringing up some fun thing we could go do, like seeing a movie as if a fun activity to pass the time and the thing that gives me consistent deadlines are interchangeable.

A friend of mine has a very specific time window for writing while her kid is in MMO. It’s a tiny, four hour block of time she gets twice a week. In that time she’s finished amazing books. Her husband knows it is her writing time, it’s why their child is signed up for MMO, but every time one of his days off lands on an MMO day they end up arguing because he doesn’t see why she can’t just do it later when he’s not home.

Another writer friend of mine despaired that a copy of his book leaked pre-publication and had already been downloaded all over the place. People think nothing of stealing a book someone worked over a year to write. I’ve heard people justify piracy like it’s an insult they’d be expected to pay for something that someone else enjoyed making. “Shouldn’t they be happy anyone even wants to read their book?” (Singers and actors get that one a lot, too)

It’s not just other people.

Today before I sat down to write, I got an email regarding something I volunteered for at my daughter’s school, a bill in the mail that needed to be paid, a text from my husband about some groceries we forgot to pick up, and a reminder note to schedule my cats’ yearly exam. None of it was so important it had to be dealt with just then. It all could wait. But I still felt tempted to stop and deal with all the less fun stuff so I could enjoy my “down” time writing.

Writing pays my mortgage. It’s not down time. It’s absolutely essential.

We, as a society have a really weird hang up about things we enjoy. Point out any profession that people go into for the love of it, and chances are they are fighting tooth and nail to be paid while people chant useless things at them like “No one goes into teaching for the money. If you didn’t love your job, you wouldn’t be there.”

For some reason we equate any job we might actually find enjoyment in as something that doesn’t count as real work. But writing, or any other job that takes work and time and effort, is no less of a job because you aren’t miserable doing it. Critique meetings are no less important because they also happen to be fun. Just because you love it doesn’t mean it’s not worth doing.

 

 

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